This makes me sad, but I had to change the comment strategy on my blog today. Honestly, this is selfish, but I need to get more "strategic" about my time. With wide open commenting, it’s taking me additional time to filter and/or respond to comments that aren’t appropriate or are intended to provoke attacks. Today, I made a couple of modifications:

  1. I turned on "TypeKey Authentication" which requires folks to login before commenting. It’s another layer to hopefully prevent spam.
  2. I turned on the comment moderation feature. Basically that means every comment needs to be approved before it gets published.

In case you’re wondering, here are some guidelines to make sure your comments get published:

  • Stick to my agenda. This is my blog. I get to decide what topics we discuss. If you want to push your agenda or talk about your topics, start your own blog.
  • Don’t attack individuals (including me) or ministries (including my church). We "encourage one another and build each other up" around here. It’s biblical. And, it’s a lot more fun. Again, if you want to be grumpy and pick fights, do that on your own time. There are plenty of blogs out there that are designed to encourage bickering. I don’t have time for that.
  • Don’t embarrass me. I’m trying to be a good Baptist boy. If you use inappropriate language, I’m not going to post it.

Because of this change in directions, you may notice that comments aren’t posted immediately. I have a day job. That means comments waiting approval will probably stack up until after my kids are in bed. Sorry for that inconvenience. Hopefully we can find a solution to keep the conversation flowing. If at all possible, I’m going to delegate comment moderation so I don’t even have to get involved.

Just in case you’re wondering, I view blogging as another way for me to learn. I don’t like "yes men" on my team…and I consider you to be a part of my team. If I know your motivation is to help me take my next step in my spiritual or leadership journey, I want to hear your push back. I love that part of blogging.

Let’s continue to encourage healthy conversations. And, let’s continue to strive for a more Christ-like dialogue. We’re leaders. We should model healthy relationships and interactions…even if they are virtual.

The world is watching.

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