Get Your Strategy On

The passage in Genesis about Adam and Eve is about whole persons coming together. All of him being given to all of her. All of her being given to all of him…
The "naked and they felt no shame" part comes last in the story of Adam and Eve. It’s a celebration of all of the ways they’ve bonded. All of the ways their souls have mingled.
It’s easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit
and thoughts
and fears
and future
and hopes
and dreams…
that is being naked.
This is why when people sleep together after they’ve just met, they’re raising the chances significantly that the relationship will not survive. Racing ahead of the progressions always costs something.
When there is no common mission, no shared task, no sense of bone of bone and flesh of flesh, no bonds that take years to develop, many end up moving from relationship to relationship, having sex but never really being naked.
Too much too fast rarely endures.
–from Sex God by Rob Bell
Tony Morgan is a pastor and the Chief Strategic Officer at NewSpring Church where he develops creative solutions for communications, technology and NewSpring Ministries--the church's ministry that equips other church leaders.
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Camey
January 3rd, 2008 at 2:17 pm
Thanks Tony for posting this. Need to pick up a few copies to give to out!
DJ Wilson
January 3rd, 2008 at 3:26 pm
I really enjoyed this book. I also caught his most recent tour on the ATL leg.
Bell’s delivery is so specific - his books read just like he speaks. And I really like hearing what he says, he’s got a great vision.
Becky
January 4th, 2008 at 6:19 am
TMI - too much information..
Taking off clothes, being naked/having sex with your spouse..TMI.
I do like where you were going with the post, that we need to be open with our spouse and share everything the real “naked.” That was very good.
sam
January 4th, 2008 at 9:21 am
Did you check out what Mark Driscoll had to say about Rob Bell at the Convergent conference last year? May want to look in to that.