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Do you know how to flirt?
Feb32008 Filed under: Communications Author: Tony MorganMake eye contact. Prove you’re talking to me.
Show your personality. Let me see your quirks.
Don’t reveal too much too soon. (That’s awkward.)
Compliment me…but make it sincere.
Be confident.
Ask questions. It proves you’re interested in me.
Create curiosity.
Dare me to try something new.
Don’t yell. Sometimes your whisper is more effective.
Anticipate some rejections, but don’t dwell on them.
Leave me wanting more.
(Now apply all of this to your blogging.)
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Tony Morgan is a pastor and the Chief Strategic Officer at NewSpring Church where he develops creative solutions for communications, technology and NewSpring Ministries--the church's ministry that equips other church leaders.
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February 3rd, 2008 at 2:52 pm
Tony,
Dig you blog, but that is the weirdest post :)
slowtraincoming
February 3rd, 2008 at 11:03 pm
Apply all of this to your blogging? That’s cool. But what about churches/pastors applying this to visitors?
Brad Bretz
February 4th, 2008 at 12:56 am
You had me at make eye contact.
Alece
February 4th, 2008 at 2:31 am
mmm… great advice.
Bryan
February 4th, 2008 at 5:56 am
If someone asks me why I’m flirting today…5 words…Tony Morgan told me to. Thanks, Tone.
brad cooper
February 4th, 2008 at 9:43 am
Does this mean that effective communicators are effective flirts???? This is revolutionary insight… I need to flirt more— hone my skillz….
One Love
Sandy Gibbes
February 4th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
Eye contact….or in blog’s case, eye candy? Speaking of, with the ‘graphical’ talent on your team, perhaps you could get some sweet eye candy for a header on your blog?? Just a thought…fan the romantic flame of your flirtatious blogging. …Hmmm… I can’t seem to find the smiley face icon that batts its eyes…hm…
Camey
February 4th, 2008 at 3:02 pm
“Don’t yell. Sometimes your whisper is more effective.”
Funny how that works in blogging.
Abs
February 4th, 2008 at 3:07 pm
Yea! Permission to flirt has been granted!
Brad Ruggles
February 5th, 2008 at 10:16 pm
Wow…flirting on my blog. I never thought of it that way!
Terrace Crawford
February 23rd, 2008 at 2:00 pm
EXCELLENT post. I linked to this.
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