It’s been about a year since I changed the comment strategy on my blog, so I thought now would be an appropriate time for a little reminder. The biggest change I made was turning on the comment moderation feature. Basically that means every comment needs to be approved before it gets published.

In case you’re wondering, here are some guidelines to make sure your comments get published:

  • Stick to my agenda. This is my blog. I get to decide what topics we discuss. If you want to push your agenda or talk about your topics, start your own blog.
  • Don’t attack individuals (including me) or ministries (including my church). We “encourage one another and build each other up” around here. It’s biblical. And, it’s a lot more fun. Again, if you want to be grumpy and pick fights, do that on your own time. There are plenty of blogs out there that are designed to encourage bickering. I don’t have time for that.
  • Don’t embarrass me. I’m trying to be a good Baptist boy. If you use inappropriate language, I’m not going to post it.
  • Don’t submit anonymous comments. If you can’t honestly share what’s on your mind and let others know who you are, either you’re in an unhealthy environment that doesn’t encourage open dialogue or you’re a coward.

Because of this change in directions, you may notice that comments aren’t posted immediately. I have a day job. That means comments waiting approval will probably stack up until I have a free moment. Please be patient. Sorry for that inconvenience. Hopefully we can keep the conversation flowing.

Just in case you’re wondering, I view blogging as another way for me to learn. I don’t like “yes men” on my team…and I consider you to be a part of my team. If I know your motivation is to help me take my next step in my spiritual or leadership journey, I want to hear your push back. I love that part of blogging.

Let’s continue to encourage healthy conversations. And, let’s continue to strive for a more Christ-like dialogue. We’re leaders. We should model healthy relationships and interactions…even if they are virtual.

The world is watching.

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