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Guerrilla Lovers

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Vince Antonucci is touring the blog world today to let people know about his new book, Guerrilla Lovers: Changing the World with Revolutionary Compassion.  I’m excited to be a part of it and get to ask Vince about his book.

TONY: So Vince, I appreciate you challenging people to become guerrilla lovers, but I guess what I’m wondering is if it really makes a difference in people’s lives…

VINCE: That’s the question, isn’t it?  Here’s part of my answer:

There’s a twelve-year-old named Jacob who has been coming to the church I started in Virginia Beach most of his young life. One chilly November morning Jacob left his house to walk to the bus stop. As he walked up something stopped him. It was a rock. The kids at the bus stop were throwing rocks at him. They were also shouting. “You’re fat.” “Go home you faggot!” “Don’t cry, you fat faggot!” Jacob ran home, blinded with rage and shame, tasting the salt of his tears. His mother was surprised to see him, but after learning what happened, told Jacob she would drive him to school. Jacob knew the same bullies would be at school and begged to stay home, but his mother insisted he go.

That night the rest of his family heard about what happened. His older brother said, “Tomorrow morning we’re gonna go there together and beat those kids up.” His parents discussed calling the bully’s parents.

But Jacob had a different idea.

He explained that he wanted to invite the kid who had been most abusive to sleep over on Saturday night and go with the family to church on Sunday. His parents were flabbergasted. They asked, “Jacob, why would you want to do that? I mean, after what he did to you?”

You know why? Jacob had learned about being a guerrilla lover. Jacob was a guerrilla lover.

And the next day Jacob invited his attacker to sleep over and come to church with his family. Surprisingly, he said yes. That Saturday night he slept over, that Sunday he came to church, and he’s been going to church with Jacob every Sunday since.
That’s guerrilla.

Thanks Vince! You may order Vince’s book using my Amazon link.   There’s also all kinds of free resources for pastors, guerrilla assignments, and more at www.guerrillalovers.com.

An Introvert Interviews an Extrovert on Introverted Leaders

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I recently had a few moments to interview Jennifer Kahnweiler, the author of The Introverted Leader: Building on Your Quiet Strength. We had the opportunity to talk about the strengths and weaknesses of introverted leaders. We talked about whether or not extroverts still make good leaders. Jennifer gave me some advice on how I, as an introvert, can become a better leader. And, among other things, she recommended what I should or shouldn’t drink at office parties.

Here’s the 14-minute interview in its entirety:

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So, what surprised you about Jennifer’s take on introverts and their capacity to become good leaders? Do you agree with her take?

If you’re interested in learning more about Jennifer’s thoughts on introverted leaders, you can check out this previous post. You may also want to purchase her book. Here’s my Amazon link to The Introverted Leader: Building on Your Quiet Strength.

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Just so you know… Jennifer gave me her book to review, but I only recommend books on my blog that I believe will benefit you in your leadership.

#8 in 09: The Principle of the Path

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I finished Andy Stanley’s most recent book, The Principle of the Path, last week. Andy is one of those guys that seems to have figured out how to get from here to there, so I figured I’d read his book about how to get from where I am to where I want to be.

Here are some of the highlights from my reading:

  • “To get from where we don’t want to be to where we do want to be requires two things: time and a change of direction.”
  • “Direction–not intentions, hopes, dreams, prayers, beliefs, intellect, or education–determines destination.”
  • “We should break the habit of drawing a circle around individual decisions and events and dismissing them as isolated occurrences. These are steps. Steps that lead somewhere.”
  • “Prudent people look as far down the road as possible when making decisions.”
  • “Christians start talking about forgiveness as if somehow forgiveness serves as an escape hatch from the outcome of bad decisions.”

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By the way, out of full disclosure, I received this book for free from the publisher. Most of the books I read are free from publishers or authors. With that said, this was a great book.

Unpacking the Starbucks Experience

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I recently had the distinct privilege of interviewing Joseph Michelli, the author The Starbucks Experience. Last month, I finished Joseph’s book and posted highlights from my reading. As a result of that post, I had the opportunity to connect with Joseph and talk about some of the specifics of his book. Here’s the audio recording of our conversation:

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If you haven’t already, you may want to order a copy of The Starbucks Experience using my Amazon link.

Interestingly enough, I found out in our conversation that Joseph’s wife is in ministry. It was fun to hear his take on how some of the principles in The Starbucks Experience applied to churches.

What are your thoughts? Do you agree that churches have a thing or two to learn from Starbucks?

Management Rewired: Interview with Charles Jacobs

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A few days ago, I had the privilege of interviewing Charles Jacobs, the author of Management Rewired. I recently finished reading the book and sharing some of my highlights. The book challenged my thinking so much that I decided to connect with Charles and ask him a few more questions. Here’s the recording of our interview:

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Interested in more information about the book? You can visit the Management Rewired website for more information including an excerpt.

Marcus Buckingham and I Talk About Women

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fysl_coverEarlier this week, I had the opportunity to talk with Marcus Buckingham in a telephone interview. For those of you not familiar with Buckingham, he’s an author and a speaker who is primarily focused on helping individuals discover and capitalize on their personal strengths. His previous books include First, Break All the Rules (co-authored with Curt Coffman) and  Now, Discover Your Strengths (co-authored with Donald Clifton, 2001).

In our conversation, we talked about women. Driving the conversation is research revealed by numerous studies indicating a drastic decline in female happiness over the last 40 years. Buckingham has recently released a new book, Find Your Strongest Life: What the Happiest and Most Successful Women Do Differently, offering strategies for reversing this trend.

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If you’re interested, you may purchase Find Your Strongest Life using my Amazon link. As Marcus suggested in the interview, you may also access additional resources related to this topic on his company’s website.

How do we encourage people to serve outside the church?

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This week we’re focusing on volunteering. The first couple of posts have been on serving inside the church. Today, we’re going to take a look at a church that is also strongly encouraging folks to serve outside the church. With that in mind, here’s an interview with Dino Rizzo, the senior pastor of Healing Place Church.

TONY: What’s the serving culture like at Healing Place Church?

DINO: Our culture of serving here at Healing Place Church really just began with felt-needs. We’d see a widow in need, and do what we could to help her. Today, widows, single moms and the elderly are still a big part of how we serve, but now it has taken on a “Second-Mile” mentality more than ever. One of our teaching pastors wrote about this mindset (The Second Mile by Mike Haman) and it has truly become a picture of the culture of serving here – always looking to go to extra lengths to address needs. It took what we were doing, and shifted us into the next gear.

TONY: Why is it so important to you to move people into serving roles at the church?

DINO: I believe it is the difference between life and death in the Church. When a church turns inward, it is only a matter of time until they become a non-factor in their community. We have a mandate to move people to serving the cause of Jesus.  Serving that cause can happen in a thousand different ways, but we must not allow Church to turn inward.

TONY: What is a “servolution?”

DINO: A servolution is a significant change in the course of history sparked by simple acts of kindness. It is a revolution; not one that is fueled by anger, violence and revolt, but one of compassion, love and service.  This revolution has a clear mission to answer the cries of the poor, the hurting and the forgotten, and is made up of revolutionaries willing to lay down their lives to reach out to people in their city, their nation, and throughout the world.  This is a revolution aimed at initiating change, but not by overthrowing a government; this change comes by bringing healing to a hurting world, and by loving people to Christ.  This is a revolution of serving others…a servolution.  The troops are followers of Christ, the companies of soldiers are churches, and the weapons are towels for service.

TONY: Now that the book, Servolution, has been out for a few months, what’s the best story you’ve heard from another church?

DINO: Well, it’s tough to say one is “better” than the rest, but here’s one that really gives a good picture of what is happening over and over at churches across the world. It is from a volunteer named Curt at a church in Austin, Texas.

Curt said they decided to plan “a Servolution-style event, not only for the benefit of reaching the local community, but also to show our staff and members by example what could be done if we really focused on community outreach.”

So they did a free car wash, and gave away free hotdogs and cold drinks. “Less than halfway through, we had already done 75 cars and blown through all 150 hotdogs and all cold drinks.  Runners were sent to the store to buy replacement food.  By the end of the four hours we ended up washing 160 cars… Volunteers came out like I would not have imagined.  We had 49 adult volunteers, all wearing the bright red Servolution shirts….”

He continued, “The people we were serving just couldn’t believe that there wasn’t a catch.  It was SOOO much fun telling them that there was no catch, and that we wouldn’t take their money if they tried.  Many called their friends and family to come get their car washed, which was perfect!  ….More often than not, the guest would end up asking questions about the church, which we were more than happy to answer.”

He said at least one family that had learned about the church through the event was at the church the next Sunday.  And he said, “Probably the biggest surprise of all was the response from the volunteers.  Most people said that it was the MOST fun they’ve ever had at a church activity of any kind.”

Getting people to experience the joy of serving, helping people see that church is a place they can feel welcomed to, meeting people where they have a need, and giving them the chance to encounter Jesus – that’s what servolution is all about. And what’s cool is that Curt’s story is one of many that are happening all over. We’ve got a steady stream of Servolution stories coming in. You can check them out to see for yourself.

TONY: What specific advice would you give senior pastors to encourage folks to step into serving roles?

DINO: You have to lead by example. We’ve all heard the saying, “As goes the leader, so goes the church.” It is so true. We have to be out front. Pastors must lead the way in sweating, crying, praying, cheering, encouraging, and telling the story of the heart to serve. And, you really can’t delegate it away, either.  A servant’s towel must fit the hand of the pastor as well as the college and high school students.

TONY: What’s next for Servolution?

DINO: We’re already in the planning stages for a special nationwide Servolution in Spring 2010. It’ll be similar to the “7 Days of Servolution” earlier this year. Stay tuned to Servolution.org for details.

Wayne Wins Andy’s Book

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It was a close vote, but Wayne is the clear winner in the “Andy Stanley Look-alike Contest.” Congratulations! It was a hard fought battle.

I’m sure you’ll see the uncanny resemblance in the pictures below:

Andy & Wayne

Both Andy and Wayne are handsome men. Wayne, shoot me your mailing address, and I’ll put a copy of The Principle of the Path in the mail for you.

To everyone that submitted a photo and voted, thanks for playing.

What are the new multi-site trends?

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Seacoast Church is a multi-site church based out of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina. Geoff Surratt is the ministries pastor for Seacoast, and he’s written quite a bit on multi-site strategy. His first book, The Multi-site Church Revolution, is a foundational resource that every church leader should read before launching their own multi-site campuses. Here’s my interview with Geoff about his current learnings.

TONY: First of all, catch us up to speed on what’s happening at Seacoast.

GEOFF: Life is fun at Seacoast. We are now in 13 locations across three states with about 10,000 people attending each weekend. This year we have been realigning our focus on making a positive impact in our neighborhoods through community transformation projects and we have been concentrating on helping leaders within Seacoast to take their next step in development. We are very excited about what’s next as we harness 21st century tools to spread the ageless Gospel. (Pretty pithy, huh?)

TONY: Tell us about your newest book on multi-site.

GEOFF: Greg Ligon, Warren Bird and I have teamed up to write a companion volume to our first book (The Multi-site Church Revolution) which will come out at the beginning of October. In A Multi-site Church Roadtrip, we travel to 15 different sites to experience the latest innovations in multi-site ministry. During the roadtrip we stop by Seacoast to look at the variety pack approach to multiple campuses. We drop in on Lifechurch.tv to get the latest on technology. We cruise on down the bayou for a stop in with Dino Rizzo and the gang at Healing Place Church to see how multi-site, Dream Centers and social justice all come together. I think this book will be a great resource for churches considering becoming multi-site as well as multi-site churches who are considering new opportunities for expanded influence.

TONY: What are some new trends you’ve noticed since your first multi-site book was published?

GEOFF: One of the biggest trends I’ve noticed is that multi-site is no longer a novelty. When we wrote the first book it was difficult to find multi-site models in many parts of the country; now it’s difficult to find a city without a multi-site church. Another trend is the explosion of internet campuses. With the rise of free or almost-free services like USTREAM and LiveStream any church with a website and a webcam can have a live online presence. A trend that is just emerging is the idea of an international campus; several churches are trying to figure out how a congregation in South America, Asia or Africa can be campus of a church in America.

TONY: Is there anything in the first book that you disagree with now?

GEOFF: While some of the examples in the first book have changed as churches change over time, I still think the principles are very solid. The Multi-site Church Revolution actually makes a great primer for churches launching their first or second campus and thinking through questions such as structure, budgeting and location. I have talked to several churches who have taken their whole staff through the book as a primer to where the church is going next.

TONY: Name a church doing multi-site that we should be studying that may not be on our radar at this point. What’s their unique story?

GEOFF: One of the most unique multi-site churches in the country is Brand New Church (yep, that’s their name) based in Harrison, Arkansas. Pastor Shannon O’Dell has a vision for rural America, so they are bypassing the big cities to go into small communities in the Midwest. Brand New Church currently has four campuses in Arkansas and several house churches spread across Arkansas, Kansas and Oklahoma as well as an internet campus. All of the campuses are linked up live by satellite and Brand New Church can broadcast from anywhere using their mobile uplink mounted on the back of a bright red Hummer. On a recent Sunday Pastor O’Dell gave a live tour of one of the smaller campuses using his Flip HD camera and beaming the signal via the Hummer parked out front.

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For other great resources on multi-site strategy, you may also want to check out the Leadership Network. They have several free resources specifically to help churches learn more about launching new campuses.

Do you read or listen to books?

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A question popped up on Twitter earlier today about an audio version of Killing Cockroaches. Made me curious to know how you consume books. With that in mind, here’s a quick poll. I’d love your feedback on your reading/listening habits.

Thanks for participating. Come on back to check out the results.