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Spreading the Greatest Story

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story chicagoI’ve come to the conclusion in recent weeks that part of my mission in life is to spread great stories. That’s why I’m really excited about participating in Ben’s new adventure.

I just confirmed last week that I’ll be experiencing Story Chicago at the Paramount Theater in October. I’ll be joining about 1,500 of my closest friends to hear some of the top communicators of the Gospel share how they spread the greatest story.

Among others, I’m really looking forward to meeting Michael Hyatt, the CEO of Thomas Nelson Publishing, in person. Michael and I know each other through blogging and Twitter, but we’ve never met face-to-face. He was just confirmed last week as a new workshop speaker at the event.

This is one of those events I believe in. I’m so committed to the importance of this gathering that I’m giving Ben the promotional space on my website and I’m paying my own way to get there.

Are you in? And, if so, who are you most looking forward to seeing and meeting?

Killing Cockroaches Tour Update

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In case you haven’t heard, my family is hitting the road for three weeks for the Killing Cockroaches Summery Tour 2009. I’m going to be offering half-day seminars in six cities across the South and Midwest. The event will feature stories and learnings from my recent book, Killing Cockroaches: and Other Scattered Musings on Leadership.

This event is designed and priced for both staff and volunteer church leaders. Early bird pricing ends two weeks prior to each event date and then increases to $39 per person. That means there’s only one week left to register for the cheap rate if you plan to attend in Atlanta.

By the way, Atlanta is winning the registration race so far. Dallas and Chicago are running neck-and-neck for #2. St. Louis is in the basement (kind of like the St. Louis Rams).

Hope to see you at one of the six stops!

Schedule

9:00 am     Check-in

9:30 am     Session 1: Building Teams and Empowering Leaders (Volunteer/Staffing Strategy)

10:15 am   Q&A

10:45 am   Break

11:15 am   Session 2: Finding Your Focus (Outreach/Discipleship/Communications Strategy)

12:00 pm   Q&A

12:30 pm   Event Concludes

Host Churches

Atlanta – June 29 at West Ridge Church in Dallas, Georgia

Dallas – July 2 at Springcreek Church in Garland, Texas

St. Louis – July 6 at Harvester Christian Church in St. Charles, Missouri

Chicago – July 8 at The Orchard in Aurora, Illinois

Columbus – July 14 at Grace Church in Powell, Ohio

Nashville – July 17 at Cross Point Church in Nashville, Tennessee

Coast-to-Coast Church-Hopping

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I’m loving the change of pace these last several weeks. It’s opened up opportunities for me to connect with a variety of churches and leaders. Here are some highlights from recent days:

  • Thomas Road Baptist Church (Lynchburg, VA) – I attended the InnovateChurch Conference which was my first visit Thomas Road. I really respect what Jonathan Falwell is doing in his new leadership role. Great leader. (He’s really smart too.)
  • Canyon Ridge Christian Church (Las Vegas, NV) – I had a fun conversation with a couple of guys from their staff team about the intersection of ministry and social networking. In case you didn’t know, I have an opinion or two on that topic.
  • Marathon Church (Greenville, SC) – Love what these guys are doing. They have a couple of contemporary services for one venue. Then they have a couple of very edgy services in another venue. On top of that, they’re meeting in two campuses. Senior Pastor Eddie Cox has built a sharp ministry team.
  • Saddleback Church (Lake Forest, CA) – I wish you could have been in the room to hear the heart that the Saddleback team has for pastors and churches around the globe. You’re going to love some of what they have planned for the coming days. If you’re a pastor, you’ll want to stay tuned. (btw… The Refinery tour was worth the trip by itself.)

It’s really encouraging for me to see so many churches of different shapes and sizes making such a huge impact in their communities. I’m honored to have had these opportunities to see where God is moving in the local church.

My Theology of Leadership (part 3)

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Leaders empower the people around them.

  • It’s less about the leader. It’s more about the God-ordained vision.
  • It’s less about the leader. It’s more about those being led.
  • It’s less about the leader. It’s more about synergy of the body.

I’m still a big proponent of clear vision in churches. Clear vision leads to unified effort which results in ministry impact. A clear vision also provides a lot of freedom for people to be empowered to be who God created them to be. I’ve heard it described as freedom within a framework. That’s essentially a picture of the Christian faith. There’s actually more freedom for us if we stay within God’s designed framework.

Paul described the responsibility of leaders in the church this way:

Their responsibility is to equip God’s people to do his work and build up the church, the body of Christ. This will continue until we all come to such unity in our faith and knowledge of God’s Son that we will be mature in the Lord, measuring up to the full and complete standard of Christ” (Ephesians 4:12-13)

That’s what I mean about it being less about the leader and more about those being led. Our role as leaders is to “equip God’s people to do his work.” The leader doesn’t do the work – God’s people do his work. God’s people don’t do the leader’s work – they do God’s work.

We see this reflected in Paul’s writings on spiritual gifts in I Corinthians 12 as well. Each believer is given one or more gifts. Paul uses the human body as a metaphor to express how the various parts of the body of Christ are indispensable. In other words, we have failed as leaders in the church if we do not embrace the unique gift-mix that God designed. And, we won’t fully know the power and impact of the local church until people are empowered to be who God wired them up to be.

We aren’t telling them what to do to accomplish the vision. We are helping them discover their gifts and freeing them to use them to fulfill the vision. It’s not delegation. With delegation, I’m still responsible. It’s empowerment. Someone else is responsible, but, as a leader, I still hold them accountable.

In the Old Testament, we see this play out when Jethro tells his son-in-law, Moses, to:

Select from all the people some capable, honest men who fear God and hate bribes. Appoint them as leaders over groups of one thousand, one hundred, fifty, and ten” (Exodus 18:21).

In the New Testament, we see this demonstrated when Paul instructs Timothy:

You have heard me teach things that have been confirmed by many reliable witnesses. Now teach these truths to other trustworthy people who will be able to pass them on to others” (2 Timothy 2:2).

We see this model of leadership throughout the Bible where people are entrusting responsibilities with other people to carry on the ministry. Leadership isn’t leadership if it isn’t released to others.

With that, here are some questions we may want to consider about our leadership:

  • Is there a clear vision that offers freedom within a framework?
  • Is my leadership more about getting people to do what I want them to do, or helping people be who God designed them to be?
  • Am I entrusting leadership to other capable people, or am I just delegating tasks?
  • If I wasn’t here, would the ministry continue to grow without me?

It’s so contradictory isn’t it? We’ve been so conditioned to equate leadership with a person. Yet, that’s not how God created it. In God’s design, the sum is greater than its parts. Leadership doesn’t rest with one individual, it’s entrusted to capable men and women.

Does your leadership empower people?

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Other Posts in This Series:

One Million People to Thank

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1,000,000 visitorsBig day tomorrow. Sometime during the day I’m expecting the one millionth unique visitor to stop by TonyMorganLive.com. When I wrote this initial post four years ago, I didn’t expect to have that many people stop by. In actuality, I really didn’t expect anyone but a handful of friends and family to hang out here. Go figure.

Thanks for joining the conversation. It’s been fun. We’ve had lots of great discussions along the way. And, I’ve met many new friends.

Thanks to Google (and more recently Twitter) for sending so many friends to the site. Thanks to @emilymorganlive for having the patience to let me write.

Thanks to you for putting up with me while I figure things out. I’m still figuring…but you probably already knew that.

Because there’s no way for me to know, let’s just assume you’re #1,000,000. Congratulations!

New Openings on the Job Board

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Are you looking for a job at a church? Then you’ve come to the right place. We have several new job listings on the job board to choose from. Check out these roles:

  • arts administrator
  • business director
  • video producer
  • kids director
  • worship pastor
  • campus pastor

Or, if you’re a church looking for gifted people, check out these resumes.

Have you either found a job or found a new employee using the job board? If so, I’d love to hear your story.

btw… You can add your position to the job board for only $49 for 30 days.

Update on My Next Adventure

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Folks have been asking about what’s happening in my life. I’m continuing to have conversations with people about my next steps. My family and I still don’t know exactly what’s in store for us, but we’re really excited about our future.

In the mean time, I’m staying busy. My calendar is essentially full through mid-August. While I’m in transition, you may be interested in one of these opportunities:

  • Coaching – I’m launching a new coaching network in July with Ron Sylvia that’s designed for teams of Senior and Executive Pastors.
  • Speaking – I have several engagements including the Killing Cockroaches Summer Tour with stops in six cities.
  • Consulting – I’m working with a number of churches throughout the country.

Just let me know how I might be able to serve you and your team. Act soon. My guess is my fall calendar will fill up quickly.

Narcissistic Leaders

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narcissistic leadersI took the test. Then Emily took the test for me. We both arrived at the same results. I’m a narcissistic leader.

The test was included in the book Narcissistic Leaders by Michael Maccoby. It’s an older book. It was originally published in 2003, but it may be one of the most helpful leadership books I’ve read.

In the book, Maccoby highlights four patterns of personality:

  • Erotic – They are driven by loving and being loved.
  • Obsessive – They live by the rules, and the rules are set by some higher authority (i.e. father figure, strict conscience, tradition, etc.)
  • Marketing – They sense what the market wants and needs and then conform to it.
  • Narcissist – They impress us as a personality, who disrupts the status quo and brings about change.

Each of these personality patterns can either be productive or disruptive. And, there are combination of types (I’m narcissistic-marketing), but one usually is dominant over the other. Maccoby suggests that Bill Gates, Jack Welch, Henry Ford and Abraham Lincoln are/were productive narcissists.

I’ll let you pick up the book to get the rest of the story. But, here are a handful of highlights from my reading:

  • “Narcissists do no react to the external world so much as they try to create it… [Their] vision always starts with a rejection of the status quo.”
  • “A true narcissist is the kind of person who (1) doesn’t listen to anyone else when he believes in doing something and (2) has a precise vision of how things should be.”
  • Narcissism “is not an illness or a description of bad behavior, but a personality type, and like any personality, it can be productive or unproductive, creative or destructive, healthy or sick, generous or selfish.”
  • Obsessives “become mired in details and rules…; they are more concerned with doing things in the right way than doing the right things; they turn into control freaks.”
  • “Without enthusiasm and passion, even the most skillful, focused, reasoned, and talented person can just go through the motions of work, passively accepting tasks as if they were assignments.”
  • “The ones who do actually change our world, provide meaning not only for themselves but also for the people who work for them, who believe in them, who follow them.”
  • “Narcissists can’t stand situations that contain them and their ideas, and have the guts to go out on their own, risking security and failure in favor of their vision.”
  • “Because of their paranoid tendencies, narcissists may try to maintain total control over an organization, making it impossible for their best people to make any kind of contribution or further the narcissist’s vision.”
  • Regarding working for a narcissist: “If you have a great idea and can’t get his ear, you have to frame it in a way that shows him how he will benefit personally. Also, if you are trying to stop him from an action that could damage the company, you have to show how it will damage him personally.”

Now, let’s be honest. I’m guessing I’m not the only leader in the church today who has these tendencies. Either you do as well, or you probably know someone who does. If that’s true, this book may be for you. I’ve only scratched the surface of the contents of this book.

In the mean time, I need to figure out how to disrupt the status quo a little bit more.

LifeWay Wins the Prize!

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killing cockroachesDuring our date last night, Abby and I stopped by the local LifeWay store to browse books. Look what Abby found. There was a whole stack of Killing Cockroaches.

With that, LifeWay wins the “You’re a Really Cool Bookstore Award” for carrying a sufficient quantity of books so that potential Killing Cockroaches owners don’t have to walk away disappointed.

And, with that, I’m also naming Thom Rainer the first recipient of the “You’re a Really Cool CEO Award” for making it all possible. Thanks Thom!

(By the way, Thom, has there been any sign of Ed Stetzer at the LifeWay offices yet? Any confirmation that he actually works for you? I find it odd that Ed never mentions you when we talk. Very odd…)

Listen to the New Hillsong United Album

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The new Hillsong United album, “Tear Down the Walls“, released today. Listen to the album straight through one time for free on my website:

If you like it, you can purchase it and download it immediately from Amazon. And, while you’re here, let me know what you think of the new album. I’d love to hear your reaction.