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Celebrating My Sponsors

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Here are the folks that are making things happen at TonyMorganLive.com this month:

Letters to God – the main sponsor offers an opportunity for pastors and church leaders to get a VIP screening of the film Letters to God

Carlos Whittaker — check out his new EP from Integrity Music that releases January 26

The Change Group – offers a web-based system that allows churches to outsource all aspects of day-to-day financial management

Church Volunteer Central — provides church leaders the tools and resources to invite, train, motivate, and retain great volunteers

Clover – provides websites for growing churches and ministries

Collision Media – a creative design studio that provides web design and other media related services for churches and businesses

FaithSearch Partners — an executive search firm focused on faith-based hospitals, healthcare systems and ministries

Rockbridge Seminary – 100% online program for earning your seminary degree without leaving your current ministry assignment

SecureGive — increases ministry donations with online and on-site giving kiosks

SiteOrganic — website solution that delivers “the organic blend” of design, content management tools, and personal service

If you’re interested, we still have advertising spots available for your organization. Email me for more details. I’d love to have you join our team!

Haiti Earthquake Relief at West Ridge

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If you attend West Ridge Church, I wanted to share this update on how we’re responding to the earthquake in Haiti. Brian will be sharing more about this at tomorrow’s services. Here’s how you can help.

Pray

Please pray for the country of Haiti and for all the families impacted by this. Pray for order to be restored and that supplies would get to the people who need them. Pray for God’s peace to reign in every circumstance, and that He will comfort all those who are grieving. Pray, specifically, about how God may ask you to be involved in the days ahead.

Give

  • Samaritan’s Purse – Ten percent of the Sunday offering on January 17 will be given to Samaritan’s Purse for earthquake relief. Samaritan’s Purse has already secured a facility with 200 beds to treat the sick and wounded. They are also delivering supplies and sending personnel.
  • Gleaning For The World – This organization partnered with our church and Engage Atlanta by providing nine truckloads of supplies for Atlanta flood relief this past fall. Currently, they have already sent over 20 shipments of supplies to Haiti and over 550,000 meals.
  • World Help – World Help has already successfully delivered $3.5 million worth of medical supplies and humanitarian aid to Haiti. They had a presence on the ground before this disaster, and are positioned to continue delivering aid.

We have great faith and trust in these organizations and encourage you to give directly to these ministry partners.

Stay Informed

We encourage you to stay informed as the situation evolves in Haiti. We will continue to update you on this page, and also invite you to check Brian’s blog for updates.

Be Prepared

At this point, please do not donate supplies to the church. We will continue to communicate with our ministry partners. As ongoing needs develop, we will ask for your help to gather necessary supplies.

We also anticipate the opportunity to send volunteer teams to assist in the recovery and restoration in the days ahead. Begin to prayerfully consider joining us on a relief trip, and check back here for more details.

Keeping Big Brother Happy

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I just added a disclosure statement to my site to comply with the new Federal Trade Commission guidelines. I know you will rest easier tonight knowing that the world is a safer place because of my full disclosure. Here’s the statement…

Disclosure Statement

This blog is a personal blog written and edited by the TonyMorganLive.com team. (That’s me!) The primary goal is to provide free resources and generate conversations that equip and encourage church leaders. Since I work part-time at my church, it’s also a means of financially supporting my family. By reading this blog, you are feeding my family and putting my kids through school. (My four kids appreciate that!)

With that in mind, this blog accepts several forms of cash advertising and sponsorship. We will and do accept and keep free products, services, travel, event tickets, and other forms of compensation from companies and organizations. (As my wife will attest, half my wardrobe is “freeware.”)

This blog abides by word of mouth marketing standards. We believe in honesty of relationship, opinion and identity. The compensation received may influence the advertising content, topics or posts made in this blog. That content, advertising space or post will be clearly identified as paid or sponsored content. (And, we’re always looking for advertising partners…especially if they brush their teeth and smile.)

We’re compensated to provide opinion on products, services, websites and various other topics. Even though we receive compensation for our posts or advertisements, we always give honest opinions, findings, beliefs, or experiences on those topics or products. The views and opinions expressed on this blog are purely our own. Any product claim, statistic, quote or other representation about a product or service should be verified with the manufacturer, provider or party in question. (That’s a nice way of saying we tell the truth, but sometimes they lie.)

I would like to disclose the following existing relationships. These are companies, organizations or individuals that may have a significant impact on the content of this blog. I’m employed by or consult with: West Ridge Church, Tony Morgan Live, LLC and Faith Search Partners. (I’m also Italian, so it’s hard to say what other “connections” I may have.)

For questions about this blog, please contact me by email. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.” (…because everything is better when the government gets involved.)

An Introvert Interviews an Extrovert on Introverted Leaders

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I recently had a few moments to interview Jennifer Kahnweiler, the author of The Introverted Leader: Building on Your Quiet Strength. We had the opportunity to talk about the strengths and weaknesses of introverted leaders. We talked about whether or not extroverts still make good leaders. Jennifer gave me some advice on how I, as an introvert, can become a better leader. And, among other things, she recommended what I should or shouldn’t drink at office parties.

Here’s the 14-minute interview in its entirety:

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So, what surprised you about Jennifer’s take on introverts and their capacity to become good leaders? Do you agree with her take?

If you’re interested in learning more about Jennifer’s thoughts on introverted leaders, you can check out this previous post. You may also want to purchase her book. Here’s my Amazon link to The Introverted Leader: Building on Your Quiet Strength.

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Just so you know… Jennifer gave me her book to review, but I only recommend books on my blog that I believe will benefit you in your leadership.

Upcoming Conferences

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Several of my friends in ministry are offering some great church conference opportunities in the next couple of months. These experiences may not be on your radar, so check these out:

  • Radicalis – Rick Warren and his team are offering a new experience at Saddleback Church on February 9-12. This event features messages from Rick, Mark Driscoll, Andy Stanley and several others. And, it’s a nice excuse to visit SoCal.
  • Velocity 2010 – The folks at ChurchPlanters.com are hosting an event with Ed Young, Rick Warren, Steven Furtick and others on February 22-23 at Mountain Lake Church near Atlanta, GA. I’ll be there too talking about “The Giant Inflatable Blue Monkey.”
  • Unleash 2010Perry Noble’s conference is on March 4 at NewSpring Church in Anderson, SC. The conference features sessions with Perry, worship and breakouts. Unleash sold out last year, so you should act quickly if you’d like to attend.
  • Thrive 2010 – This conference is out at Bayside Church near Sacramento, CA on April 29 – May 1. This event includes messages from John Ortberg and John Maxwell, and the worship will be led by one of my favorites, Lincoln Brewster.
  • The Uprising – This one-day conference is on April 15 at Quest Community Church in Lexington, KY. Pete Hise is the lead pastor. Quest has seen over 10,000 people come to Christ in the last 10 years. The early bird deadline is January 15.

Just out of curiosity, what conferences, if any, are you planning to attend in 2010?

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Update: I knew I’d leave out some of my friends. I’ve added a couple of others. And, to state the obvious, I’ve been offered free registrations to several of these events and I’m obviously getting paid to speak at others. You and I are both going to get tired of these disclosure statements to make the FTC happy. Everything’s better when the government gets involved!

Record Crowd for the Naked Truth

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We had an amazing day at West Ridge today. Great crowds in both services. The parking lot and auditorium were near capacity at our 11:00 a.m. service. Attendance was up 20% from the same weekend last year. That’s on top of our typical January bump in attendance. In fact, we broke an attendance record for a non-holiday Sunday. Guess that’s a sign that we’ve hit a topic that folks are wrestling with in their daily lives.

I’m pretty proud of the guys in the worship team for pulling together a great service. There were fun elements, worshipful moments and instances that caused you to pause and reflect on what really holds relationships together.

Brian taught one of the strongest messages I’ve heard him share. He didn’t pull any punches as he walked through the marriage myths and then revealed the “naked truth” about God’s design for the marriage covenant. If you missed it, you’ll be able to watch the message later this week. Whether you’re married or single, you need to hear this message.

Next week, “The Naked Truth” continues. Brian and Amy (Brian’s wife) will be talking about how to affair-proof your marriage. This is one of those series where you need to be engaged, but you also need to invite your friends. If you can, please consider coming to the 9:00 a.m. service to leave more room for first-time guests at our 11:00 a.m. service.

And, if you’re not in our region, pray for the marriages in our church and in our community. We really believe this is a pivotal moment for our marriages and families. Help us to be open to the heart change that God wants to see take place.

Lean Staffing

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I’ve had some interesting dialogue with Warren Bird, research director for the Leadership Network, in recent months. He shares my passion to pursue new models of ministry that raise the level of lay leadership and volunteer empowerment in ministry with the hopes of, among other things, reducing staffing expenses.

Warren has designed an online “lean staffing survey” to learn about healthy ways churches are keeping staff costs down. We’d like for you to participate. Here’s how:

  • Take the “lean staffing survey” online.
  • Only take the survey once.
  • Complete it before midnight on January 25.

If you complete the survey, you’ll also get a free copy of the results. Contact Warren directly if you have questions.

In the mean time, will you commit to the “Ephesians 4:12 Challenge” and use your leadership influence to empower more volunteers in ministry? Personally, I think it’s a simply strategic idea.

Is Dull Worship the Goal?

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You know you’ve arrived when other people start attacking your philosophies and strategies in their books. Skye Jethani, the managing editor of the Leadership Journal, did just that in his recent book, The Divine Commodity. In the book, Skye goes on the attack about some things Tim and I wrote in our book, Simply Strategic Growth. Skye has never communicated with me either face-to-face or in writing, so we’ve never had the opportunity to discuss our obvious differences.

Unlike Skye, I’m still of the opinion that healthy churches are growing churches. I also believe that if we embrace some intentionality in our ministries including our worship services, we’re more likely to connect with today’s culture. At the end of the day, I believe churches should be both attractional and missional. Skye believes otherwise. Here’s what he wrote:

These pastors, representative of so many contemporary Christians, believe that God changes lives through the commodification and consumption of experiences. If our worship gatherings are energetic, stimulating, and exciting enough then people will attend, receive what’s being communicated, and be spiritually transformed. The justification for this approach is simple: people won’t come to a church that’s boring. And what qualifies as boring is defined by our consumer/experience economy. But the moment we believe transformation occurs via external experiences, the emphasis of ministry must adjust accordingly. Manufacturing experiences and meticulously controlling staged environments become the means for advancing Christ’s mission. And the role of the pastor, once imagined as a shepherd tending a flock, now conjures images of a circus ringmaster shouting, “Come one, come all, to the greatest show on earth!” In Consumer Christianity, the shepherd becomes a showman. (p.75)

I’m intrigued by this position. Let’s assume for a moment that we agree with what Skye offers. How should we respond? Should we intentionally offer worship gatherings that are dull and boring so no one wants to participate? Should we just show up for worship without preparation? Do we start offering teaching and music and other elements of worship that reflect less than our best effort so that people aren’t attracted to the experience? Does this suggest that if someone is a gifted communicator or vocalist that we shouldn’t allow them to share their gifts in worship because people may want to invite their friends to come experience the gathering? If our worship starts to attract people, should we make it less engaging so people will stop inviting their friends and family and our worship gatherings will stay smaller? Does God want fewer people in worship?

I also think it’s a bit of a stretch to judge the methods of other churches based solely on their worship gatherings. I don’t know of a single church that relies solely on worship gatherings for spiritual transformation. Typically spiritual transformation is encouraged through several next steps including relational connections, Bible studies, serving opportunities, missions, spiritual disciplines, personal evangelism, etc. I’m intrigued with this notion that worship gatherings are the end-all-be-all to spiritual transformation. If, indeed, there are such churches, I might agree with Skye’s thesis.

My guess is there may be some misunderstanding of my interpretation of Skye’s thinking. And, of course, that happens when you begin to pull elements of someone’s writing out of context and arrive at conclusions without engaging a dialogue.

Skye, maybe we should do that.

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fyi… The publisher sent me a free copy of Skye’s book to review several months ago. You can send me free stuff, but I’m always going to shoot straight with my readers.

Platform

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There are no shortcuts to having a platform. You have to earn it.

No one owes you a platform.

Sometimes someone who is trusted can help you get a moment on the platform, but you still have to deliver to keep it.

The harder you try to have a platform, the harder it is to get it.

If you do what you’re designed to do and you are faithful to stick with it over time, there’s a good chance you’ll have a platform.

Not all platforms are created equal, but all have the opportunity to positively impact the lives of others.

Relationships are the foundation of a platform. If you can’t build relationships, you can’t have a platform.

The person who yells the loudest doesn’t necessarily get the platform.

If you never stop and listen, you probably won’t get the platform either.

If it’s just about you, you don’t have a platform.

You’ll lose your platform if you don’t continue to use it for positive change. You have to move people to a better place.

You’re more likely to leverage your platform if you tell stories that engage both the head and the heart.

You’re more likely to keep your platform if you ask questions.

If people can’t have access to you and your daily life, your platform is probably shrinking whether you know it or not.

Platforms are established over time and lost in an instant.

Lots of people want a platform, but very few are gifted to have a platform and even fewer are humble enough to keep it.

The Naked Truth

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The Naked TruthI’m really excited about the launch of our first series in 2010. On Sunday, we start “The Naked Truth: Uncovering the Realities of Relationships” at West Ridge.

Brian will start us off this weekend by debunking some of the myths of marriage. Many of these myths create false expectations and become the source of frustration and division for many couples. If you are single, I can’t think of anything better than to understand God’s expectations for a marriage before you make that covenant with someone else.

Here are the specific marriage myths that Brian will be hitting on Sunday:

  1. If a couple truly loves one another they won’t ever argue or have problems.
  2. A marriage makes a person a complete human being.
  3. Sex is really not that important in a marriage.
  4. The key to having a lasting marriage is finding Mr. or Mrs. Right.
  5. The purpose of marriage is happiness.
  6. Married couples should do everything together.
  7. Having children will make two people in a marriage closer and increase happiness.
  8. Once I get married he/she will change.
  9. Spouses should be able to read one another’s minds.
  10. A person’s family background has little effect on their marriage.
  11. Bonus: A marriage can never survive an affair.

We will pull no punches in this series. We will be talking about affair-proofing your marriage and what to do if you’ve messed up. We’ll talk about divorce and brokenness and healing. We will address singles and those that are single again. And, yes, we will even be talking about sex.

For those of you who live in and around northwest Atlanta, we’d love for you to join us. But don’t come alone. Invite some friends to join you. This should be an easy ask. Just about everyone is interested in the realities of relationships.

The question is this… Can you handle the naked truth?